Personal VIP Coaching: The Only Coaching That Makes Avoidants Feel the Loss
Sit down privately with one of our coaches and map out the exact steps to break through your avoidant’s defenses. Sessions are live over Zoom, giving you instant clarity and strategies built just for your situation.
"They Always Come Back"
After letting go and focusing on herself with the program, Thida transformed her life—and every single Avoidant came back, proving the power of self-focus and growth.
- Thida
I’m Chris Seiter, founder of The Reconnection Room. For over a decade, I’ve helped thousands of people navigate breakups and avoidant relationships through my books, coaching, and a YouTube channel with over 190,000 subscribers.
My mission is simple: to give you clear, compassionate strategies that help you reconnect with your partner, and with yourself.
Carmon studied psychology in college, building a strong foundation in understanding the human mind and behavior. Beyond academics, she gained hands-on experience as a foster parent, where she trained extensively in childhood trauma and mentorship, applying those lessons to help children heal and grow.
These experiences shaped her focus on mindset, self-love, and recognizing one’s worth. Today, she uses that background to empower others to embrace their value, cultivate resilience, and create lasting positive change.
Amor first joined our team in 2015 and returned in 2022 after completing her academic studies. Over the years she’s worn many hats in the Reconnection Room — from moderator and writer to relationship coach — giving her a deep understanding of what clients need most.
Her coaching style blends empathy with practicality: she listens without judgment, helps you see your situation clearly, and provides actionable steps rooted in our proven program. Clients value her positivity, insight, and ability to cut through confusion during the most difficult moments.
Due to high demand we've had to limit the number of spots we have per month so we don't get overbooked.
VIP Coaching is a unique process designed to meet you where you are. In each session, we align your long-term relationship goals with a clear, step-by-step game plan. These one-on-one Zoom calls give us the space to fully understand you, your avoidant, and your situation — so you leave with answers that fit your exact needs. Here’s what you can expect:
A Private Session Over Zoom
Every VIP session is a full hour with one of our coaches, focused entirely on you. We’ll listen closely, ask the right questions, and get to the heart of your situation. By the end of the call, you’ll walk away with clear next steps — both immediate and long-term.
A Tailored Game Plan
Before your session, you’ll fill out a short intake form about your situation. We use those details to prepare, so when we meet, we’re ready to map out a plan designed specifically for you — not cookie-cutter advice, but a strategy that fits your avoidant’s patterns and your long-term goals.
Clarity on Your Chances
One of the most common questions we hear is, “Do I even have a chance with my avoidant?” In your session, we’ll give you an honest, compassionate reading of where things stand, so you can move forward with confidence instead of guesswork.
Since Joining:
"When I did finally contact him we were completely different people for the better. Now we are married!"
- Jesse
Since Joining:
"He told me we would never get back together. I came to find he didn't mean any of it."
- Sarah Michelle
Since Joining:
"I was trying new things. I was surfing again. I was I used to sing. I was singing again. And he's like, looking at all this. And he's like, holy shit. Yeah, like I missed out on all of this, that I could have been a part."
- Lee
Since Joining:
"He came over. It's a 35-minute drive from his place. He stood outside. He said all the things. He said, "I want to be with you. I miss you. I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I told my kids that I want to move in with you at the end of my lease. I still want to marry you in two years," all these things."
- Jenny
Since Joining:
He asked me to meet his family again, I think that's when he was like, "Okay, I'm ready," and two or three days later he asked me to be his girlfriend again.
- Rachel
Since Joining:
"My coaching that I got from the community was instrumental in who I am today. It's just the encouragement, the focus, the kind of constant accountability. I love that. I love that. And there's a lot of amazing people in the group."
- Bethany
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Due to high demand we've had to limit the number of spots we have per month so we don't get overbooked.
"Long story short, we got married that June and we’ll be married two years this June 28th."
-Maureen
"I didn't just make myself busy. I think like, I realized that I needed a support system the most. And, you know, doing life alone, especially after being in a long term relationship like that, as serious as it was. It was lacking a little bit and so I just built it up as best as I could."
-Aaron
"He didn't tell me that he wanted me back until a few hours later after that interaction because we were just hanging out with his family having fun, did our Costco trip. Just fun stuff. And it was later in that night, we were just watching a movie and everything. And then he's like, "I have to tell you something." I was like, "What's up?" He's like, "I want you back."
- Becca
Chris Seiter
Coach Carmon
Coach Amor
Due to high demand we've had to limit the number of spots we have per month so we don't get overbooked.
Due to high demand we've had to limit the number of spots we have per month so we don't get overbooked.
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